Connie and Brett honored commonly known and openly
shared Native American traditions in the wedding ceremony they created.
Held at Snug Harbor in Hammondsport, guests were smudged as they entered
the circle, to the accompaniment of original sacred flute music by Al Cleveland. The couple
began with a ceremonial washing of hands to wash away past wrongdoings
and memories of past loves. Poetry and readings from a variety of tribes
were shared as well as some general teachings. Integral parts of the
ceremony included the wedding vase, wedding blanket and prayer stick.
Rings were blessed honoring the directions and elements. Connie and
Brett chose to join in marriage the same weekend that Genundowa, the
festival of lights, is celebrated. Photos by Robert Gelder.
"We ask the Great Spirit to bless these rings. May they
ground the wearer in the sweet Mother Earth so that Connie and Brett
may be a solid support for each other in their life together. As the
rings glisten in the warmth of Grandfather Sun may the wearer feel
secure and loved. May they carry the wisdom of Father Sky so that issues
may be resolved as gently as a feather floats in the wind. And when
these rings reflect the light of Grandmother Moon may these rings
reflect the power and beauty of love."