I specialize in working with couples to create a wedding ceremony that reflects their spiritual beliefs and expresses their personal commitment. I am open to working with all beliefs. Couples I have officiated for include those from Christian faiths, Eastern religions, the Jewish faith, earth-based practices, free spirits, agnostics and atheists. In many of the marriages, the bride and groom did not share the same spiritual beliefs. I have officiated ceremonies that are traditional, non-traditional, non- denominational and multi-denominational.

 

All I require is that your ceremony meet those requirements set by the State of New York, that is that you have a marriage license and that you state in my presence and in front of least one other witness that you take each other as husband and wife. A link to NY State Law can be found in the purple area at the bottom of this page.

 

Where to start? Begin by browsing my website. Read what other couples have to say and see some of the options I offer. Then call me to set up a time for an informal meeting over coffee. I can explain how I work and you can give me some basic info about what you are looking for. You are not expected to have your ideas fully formulated. Most couples don't know where to begin! I can help you through the process.

At this meeting you can also get a feel of what I am like and if I am a "good fit" for you. It is very important that you be comfortable with your officiant for this very important event in your life. I would like to get to know a little about you, but don't worry, I won't pry or make any judgments.

 

Out of town? Out of state? Out of country? I work with all three scenarios- we first "meet" by phone and plan by phone/email. When you do come to town, we meet in person. SKYPE is also an option.

Creating a personal ceremony can be easy and fun! So relax, enjoy the site and contact me. I look forward to meeting you!   

Rev. Kris 

P.S. If you are planning on two ceremonies, please also see the "Having two weddings?" tab. If you want to include rituals from your heritage and culture, be sure to visit the Honor Culture and Beliefs page.

 

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I have officiated in several venues* and many private residences throughout the state. I love revisiting favorite spots and always look forward to new experiences!

Places I have officiated:

Rochester and surrounding area:

• American Association of University Women (AAUW) in Rochester
• Black Creek Park in North Chili
• Brios in Pittsford
• Brook House in Greece
• Burgundy Basin Inn in Pittsford
• Casa Larga in Fairport
• Chapel Hill in Rochester
• Chili Country Club in Scottsville
• Clarion Riverside in Rochester
• Cobblestone House at Mendon Ponds Park in Mendon/Pittsford
• Colgate Divinity in Rochester
• Colonial Belle tour boat in Fairport
• Country Club of Rochester
• Crescent Beach Hotel in Rochester
• Daisy Flour Mill in Rochester
• Deerfield Country Club in Brockport
• Diplomat Party House in Rochester
• Dolomite Lodge in Penfield
• Ellison Park in Rochester
• Ellwanger Estate in Rochester
• Village Landing Gazebo in Fairport
• George Eastman House Gardens in Rochester
• Glendoveers in Rochester
• Green Lantern Inn in Fairport
• Hedges Nine Mile Point in Webster
• Highland Park in Rochester
• Inn on Broadway in Rochester
• Interfaith Chapel at the University of Rochester
• Irondequoit Country Club in Rochester
• Kennelley Park in Fairport
• Kent Park Arboretum in Webster
• Lake Riley Lodge at Cobbs Hill Park in Rochester
• Lakeshore Country Club in Rochester
• Lamberton Conservatory in Rochester
• Linehan Chapel at Nazareth College in Rochester
• Lower Mill/Rabbit Room in Honeoye Falls
• Memorial Art Gallery in Rochester
• The Newport House in Rochester
• Pier 45 in Rochester
• Plantation Party House in Spencerport
• Ravenwood Golf in Victor­­­­­­­­­­­­
• Rochester Club Ballroom in Rochester
• Rochester Museum and Science Center in Rochester
• Roger Robach Center in Rochester
• Senator's Mansion in Churchville
• Shadow Lake in Penfield
• Strathallen in Rochester
• Warner Castle Sunken Garden in Rochester
• Tay House at Cobbs Hill Park in Rochester
• Webster Park In Webster ( White House and Pavilions)
• Webster Golf Club in Webster
• Westminster Hall & Chapel in Mendon
• Whittier Party House in Rochester
• Wildwood Country Club in Rush
• Woodcliff Hotel and Spa in Fairport
  

Finger Lakes area:

• Belhurst Castle in Geneva
• Bristol Harbour in South Bristol
• Canandaigua Inn on the Lake in Canandaigua
• Geneva Inn on the Lake in Geneva
• Kershaw Park in Canandaigua
• Norton Chapel at Keuka College in Keuka Park
• Snug Harbor Inn in Hammondsport
• Sonnenburg Gardens in Canandaigua
• Ventosa Vineyards in Geneva
• Watkins Glen State Park in Watkins Glen

South of Rochester area:

• Allegiance B&B in Mt Morris
• Charlton Inn in Avon
• Genesee Country Inn in Mumford
• Genesee Country Village and Museum in Mumford
• Glen Iris Inn in Castile (Letchworth Park)
• Joseph's in Livonia
• Letchworth Park pavilions
• StoneyBrook State Park in Dansville
• Sweet Briar in Geneseo

Buffalo area and west of Rochester:

• Arrowhead Country Club in Akron NY
• Buffalo Erie Historical Society in Buffalo
• Goat Island in Niagara Falls

Syracuse area and east of Rochester:

• Bayshore Grove in Oswego
• Justin's Grill in E. Syracuse
• Lakeshore Yacht & Country Club in Cicero

Wayne County area:

• Branding Iron Steakhouse in Ontario
• Elks Club in Lyons
• Greystone Golf in Walworth

 

I look forward to repeat visits to many of the above locations and upcoming ceremonies at the following venues:  Eagle Vale Country Club and Geneva Country Club